I accidentally walked in on my girlfriends younger sister in the shower and now I cant stop th
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop thinking about my girlfriend’s younger sister, after I accidentally walked in on her in the shower.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 12 years but the spark is fizzling out. I’m 37 and she is 35.
Her sister, who is 29, was staying over one night recently. We’ve always got on well but now I keep having naughty thoughts.
I can’t control myself. I’m pleasuring myself thinking of what we could get up to.
I’ve even started working out to impress her. I walk around in my boxers with an erection, just to see if she catches a glimpse and pounces on me.
Should I have a conversation with her? Or just walk away?
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DEIDRE SAYS: If you have any sense, don’t go there. These lusts can come out of the blue but fade just as swiftly if you don’t give in to them.
Block out that mental image of her. It is not just your girlfriend at stake here but her relationship with her sister.
Focus on giving your sex life with your girlfriend a boost. My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help.
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